Friday, October 28th, 2011
Everyone always says that change is a good thing. That it’s inevitable. Happens whether we like it, whether we want it, or not. Change is an opportunity. Maybe. But what about when you force change? What about when you really want change to happen, so much so that you make it happen? What then? No [...]
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Monday, October 17th, 2011
Amidst my own ongoing relationship drama, I recently found myself on the front lines of the dissolution of a marriage. I had been privy to much of what was happening first-hand, but even I was caught unaware by the tipping point that would launch the relationship into a full-fledged separation and inevitable divorce. It is [...]
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Friday, October 7th, 2011
Filed under: boys suck, break ups suck more, cohabitation, crash and burn, crossroads, dirty laundry, domesticity is overrated, quiet desperation, so what if i scream?, this is now, WTF by Nic
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Thursday, August 25th, 2011
I’ve been feeling a bit blue the last few days. I’ve been quiet, solitary, keeping a low profile, hiding out on the couch in my pajama pants…when I’m not working or sleeping that is. It has been A WEEK. And, I only just now realized why I’ve been so down. I had a great time at [...]
Filed under: awesomeness, blogging about blogging, friends, quiet desperation by Nic
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Thursday, August 18th, 2011
When you think you may be losing a friend- a good friend…your very best friend- there isn’t much help for it. You cry and make ugly faces. You get angry and make even more ugly faces. You drink. You go into the day with the best intentions. You get your hopes up. You commiserate with [...]
Filed under: crossroads, friends, in memory, quiet desperation, wakefulness by Nic
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Monday, August 15th, 2011
Well then, let’s get to the topic at hand. There are perhaps no “right” words to write about what the last three months have brought to both of our lives. With or without meaning to, my boyfriend and I both placed expectations upon what living together would be- me, naïvely but in good faith, and he, apparently [...]
Filed under: blogging about blogging, boys suck, break ups suck more, cohabitation, crash and burn, crossroads, dirty laundry, domesticity is overrated, jaded, poor choices, quiet desperation, work in progress by Nic
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Sunday, July 31st, 2011
Five years. Last week, though (like the bad little blogger I’ve been lately) I only just realized, marked five years for me as a blogger. Reflecting on that time, both upon blogging and the content on which I write, I’ve experienced quite a bit of Life over those years… I fell in love. And out [...]
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