Friday, October 28th, 2011
Everyone always says that change is a good thing. That it’s inevitable. Happens whether we like it, whether we want it, or not. Change is an opportunity. Maybe. But what about when you force change? What about when you really want change to happen, so much so that you make it happen? What then? No [...]
Filed under: break ups suck more, cohabitation, crash and burn, crossroads, dirty laundry, domesticity is overrated, educating the masses, in memory, just say 'when', knowing, letting go, must be a sign, poor choices, quiet desperation by Nic
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Monday, October 17th, 2011
Amidst my own ongoing relationship drama, I recently found myself on the front lines of the dissolution of a marriage. I had been privy to much of what was happening first-hand, but even I was caught unaware by the tipping point that would launch the relationship into a full-fledged separation and inevitable divorce. It is [...]
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Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
I am one of those people who, when things pretty much SUCK ASS in a million creative ways, will open up Google and direct the browser to…shoes. Oh, shoes! You are like art and I am your loving patron. Too loving. Case in point, I spent an afternoon earlier this month looking for apartments. One [...]
Filed under: cohabitation, crash and burn, crossroads, dirty laundry, domesticity is overrated, i heart fashion, poor choices, shoes by Nic
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Monday, August 15th, 2011
Well then, let’s get to the topic at hand. There are perhaps no “right” words to write about what the last three months have brought to both of our lives. With or without meaning to, my boyfriend and I both placed expectations upon what living together would be- me, naïvely but in good faith, and he, apparently [...]
Filed under: blogging about blogging, boys suck, break ups suck more, cohabitation, crash and burn, crossroads, dirty laundry, domesticity is overrated, jaded, poor choices, quiet desperation, work in progress by Nic
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Sunday, July 31st, 2011
Five years. Last week, though (like the bad little blogger I’ve been lately) I only just realized, marked five years for me as a blogger. Reflecting on that time, both upon blogging and the content on which I write, I’ve experienced quite a bit of Life over those years… I fell in love. And out [...]
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Wednesday, March 30th, 2011
So there I am, sitting on the bus the other morning, minding my own bee’s wax, when I notice the couple sitting next to me. As does the all male contingent sitting all around me, sporting many a scornful face and much eye rolling. See, the couple sitting next to me turned out to be [...]
Filed under: city encounters, going postal, hateful, haterade, in transit, jaded, my boyfriend is a saint, poor choices, public transportation, so what if i scream?, toolbaggery, WTF by Nic
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Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011
You know what? Enough is enough. I’ve been ageist before and I’m about to be again. Except this time, I’m going after all those Crabby Ass Old People. Fucking toolbags. Seriously. It’s been a morning and I’ve had it with their janky ass bullshit. I mean, if you’re just going to go around making everyone [...]
Filed under: city encounters, crash and burn, educating the masses, going postal, hateful, haterade, imma badass but only in my mind, Just Another Day in Crazy, people should be nicer to each other, poor choices, sickness sucks, so what if i scream?, things people say, toolbaggery, WTF by Nic
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