Sunday, July 31st, 2011
Five years. Last week, though (like the bad little blogger I’ve been lately) I only just realized, marked five years for me as a blogger. Reflecting on that time, both upon blogging and the content on which I write, I’ve experienced quite a bit of Life over those years… I fell in love. And out [...]
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Wednesday, March 30th, 2011
So there I am, sitting on the bus the other morning, minding my own bee’s wax, when I notice the couple sitting next to me. As does the all male contingent sitting all around me, sporting many a scornful face and much eye rolling. See, the couple sitting next to me turned out to be [...]
Filed under: city encounters, going postal, hateful, haterade, in transit, jaded, my boyfriend is a saint, poor choices, public transportation, so what if i scream?, toolbaggery, WTF by Nic
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Tuesday, February 15th, 2011
If Valentine’s Day is supposed to be about love and sex, passion and romance; what does it mean if you don’t have sex with your significant other? Sunday night, I took care in donning my thigh high stockings, lace and silk slip, 5 inch heels, and LBD for dinner with my boyfriend. It was a….hopeful little [...]
Filed under: depression, I've got your "warm delight" right here, kiss and blog, my boyfriend is a saint, the sex, wakefulness by Nic
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Wednesday, November 17th, 2010
You know, depression is a funny thing. Not funny “Ha Ha,” of course. No. Funny in the sense that it can possess you so completely that you forget where you end and it begins. You lose track of yourself in a way one would never think possible. You are depression. And then, you try a [...]
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Thursday, July 29th, 2010
I’ve been thinking a lot about romance lately. What it looks like, what it’s symbolized by; what counts as romance and what doesn’t. I used to believe that romance was about Grand Gestures- things like full-on floral bouquets, hand-scrawled love letters and cards, and thoughtfully planned out dates. A younger me believed romance was a [...]
Filed under: a thing of beauty, city encounters, my boyfriend is a saint, nicely done by Nic
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Tuesday, July 20th, 2010
Last night, my boyfriend sat slumped over my laptop. He was showing me his commitment, his desire to be with me. And I was showing him my openness to change, my desire to be with him. In the wake of our trip to Seattle and Alaska, a decision was reached: no more retreating to our [...]
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Tuesday, April 27th, 2010
I’ve found myself doing a lot of thinking lately about relationships and commitment and happiness. In particular, I’ve been wondering if it’s possible for me to have all three at once. And the more I think about it, the more I begin to wonder if my questioning whether happiness and commitment can go hand-in-hand is [...]
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