Comments on: When He Doesn't Say "I Love You" http://www.nicnarrates.com/2009/10/08/when-he-doesnt-say-i-love-you/ Thu, 26 Jan 2012 02:01:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Chica http://www.nicnarrates.com/2009/10/08/when-he-doesnt-say-i-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-863 Chica Wed, 14 Oct 2009 08:44:13 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/?p=1712#comment-863 Tease. Tease.

]]> By: nic http://www.nicnarrates.com/2009/10/08/when-he-doesnt-say-i-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-864 nic Tue, 13 Oct 2009 21:22:46 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/?p=1712#comment-864 How very astute of you fancy Chica. She didn't ask and I didn't offer...and for now my typing fingers are "sealed." ;) How very astute of you fancy Chica. She didn’t ask and I didn’t offer…and for now my typing fingers are “sealed.” ;)

]]> By: Chica http://www.nicnarrates.com/2009/10/08/when-he-doesnt-say-i-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-865 Chica Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:21:29 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/?p=1712#comment-865 Ames' comment is great as usual; I remember first getting together with my boyfriend and we were so young and he said to me "I wish we could fast forward five years so we could know we'd still be together." I think he was feeling what is articulated above. But the thing that struck me about this post, and maybe you just left it out or it didn't need to be said because of past conversations, but she never asked whether YOU loved HIM? Happiness is nothing to be sniffed at. Ames’ comment is great as usual; I remember first getting together with my boyfriend and we were so young and he said to me “I wish we could fast forward five years so we could know we’d still be together.” I think he was feeling what is articulated above.

But the thing that struck me about this post, and maybe you just left it out or it didn’t need to be said because of past conversations, but she never asked whether YOU loved HIM?

Happiness is nothing to be sniffed at.

]]> By: Ames http://www.nicnarrates.com/2009/10/08/when-he-doesnt-say-i-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-866 Ames Thu, 08 Oct 2009 23:27:09 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/?p=1712#comment-866 Ah, the uncertainty of it all. The first few months to a year in a relationship is so great because of the uncertainty, the not knowing if or when he'll call and the butterflies that go along with that. But sometimes you just want to fast forward to the part where you can ask an honest question, without subtlety or insinuation, and get an honest answer. There is no time limit on any of this, trust yourself. Ah, the uncertainty of it all. The first few months to a year in a relationship is so great because of the uncertainty, the not knowing if or when he’ll call and the butterflies that go along with that.

But sometimes you just want to fast forward to the part where you can ask an honest question, without subtlety or insinuation, and get an honest answer. There is no time limit on any of this, trust yourself.

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