Comments on: Waffles and Whine http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/ Thu, 26 Jan 2012 02:01:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: emilyd http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-462 emilyd Sat, 15 Nov 2008 00:10:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-462 Nic, i've been reading your site for a while and never commented before. Seems like this there is an elephant in the room?! are you guys talking about Kit? Is the he the Appliance fairy too? I had a guy like that years ago who would NOT let go of me after we broke up. He was totally wrong for me!!! I was convinced (and so was my mother). We've been married for 7 years now and have two beautiful boys! When they won't go away, there might be a good reason! Good luck! Nic, i’ve been reading your site for a while and never commented before. Seems like this there is an elephant in the room?! are you guys talking about Kit? Is the he the Appliance fairy too? I had a guy like that years ago who would NOT let go of me after we broke up. He was totally wrong for me!!! I was convinced (and so was my mother). We’ve been married for 7 years now and have two beautiful boys! When they won’t go away, there might be a good reason! Good luck!

]]> By: Nic http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-461 Nic Fri, 14 Nov 2008 18:05:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-461 brookem- I think you're probably right about that one. I should enjoy it while I can. I KNOW you're right in fact. Thank you for reminding me. :)<br/><br/>longredcape- CPK for one...ah yes. Also, that quote is miraculous and kind of how I've been feeling lately. I just can't date younger. The Cagey One was my age and even he was freaked out by my relationship speak. <br/><br/>I hope BE gets his act together for you. I still can't figure that one out.<br/><br/>miss gruntled- um, wow? I thought I had cut him loose- in March. And besides, since you've apparently known him for 22 years, you must know as well as I that he does whatever he wants, always has, and that I have no control over him whatsoever. <br/><br/>You are right though, that doesn't make him a bad person, it just makes him flawed. It makes him human. And it sounds like he's really lucky to have a good friend like you.<br/><br/>fancy joy- absolutely! Shoot me an email anytime!<br/><br/>ames- timing IS very important, I agree with you. And I've been hearing that whole thing about meeting someone when I'm not looking. I guess I'm fighting giving up though because I'm afraid of turning into a bitter jaded hag. Wish I could reach that balance between happy with being alone while also being open to meeting someone. <br/><br/>chica- I just read your entry and can't believe on top of what you're going through that Boyf would pull that kind of shit. As sadface Aniston would say, "not cool." brookem- I think you’re probably right about that one. I should enjoy it while I can. I KNOW you’re right in fact. Thank you for reminding me. :)

longredcape- CPK for one…ah yes. Also, that quote is miraculous and kind of how I’ve been feeling lately. I just can’t date younger. The Cagey One was my age and even he was freaked out by my relationship speak.

I hope BE gets his act together for you. I still can’t figure that one out.

miss gruntled- um, wow? I thought I had cut him loose- in March. And besides, since you’ve apparently known him for 22 years, you must know as well as I that he does whatever he wants, always has, and that I have no control over him whatsoever.

You are right though, that doesn’t make him a bad person, it just makes him flawed. It makes him human. And it sounds like he’s really lucky to have a good friend like you.

fancy joy- absolutely! Shoot me an email anytime!

ames- timing IS very important, I agree with you. And I’ve been hearing that whole thing about meeting someone when I’m not looking. I guess I’m fighting giving up though because I’m afraid of turning into a bitter jaded hag. Wish I could reach that balance between happy with being alone while also being open to meeting someone.

chica- I just read your entry and can’t believe on top of what you’re going through that Boyf would pull that kind of shit. As sadface Aniston would say, “not cool.”

]]> By: miss gruntled http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-460 miss gruntled Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:49:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-460 Some of you are being kinda mean. I've been friends with him for 22 years. He's a good guy and he adores her, that's all. Yes, he needs to move on, but that doesn't make him a bad guy. Some of you are being kinda mean. I’ve been friends with him for 22 years. He’s a good guy and he adores her, that’s all. Yes, he needs to move on, but that doesn’t make him a bad guy.

]]> By: Chica http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-459 Chica Thu, 13 Nov 2008 23:37:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-459 Since you're getting really silly comments about you know who, I just thought I'd say, though I am sure you already know, that it is MUCH better to be single than to be with the wrong guy. I'm not single and I'm going to bed alone after a crappy night. Can I swap you for your waffles? Oh and, I think you're fabulous.<br/><br/>Although you completely have a point about the sex. Since you’re getting really silly comments about you know who, I just thought I’d say, though I am sure you already know, that it is MUCH better to be single than to be with the wrong guy. I’m not single and I’m going to bed alone after a crappy night. Can I swap you for your waffles? Oh and, I think you’re fabulous.

Although you completely have a point about the sex.

]]> By: Ames http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-458 Ames Thu, 13 Nov 2008 22:26:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-458 I (while not single now) have also ridden that train and I know those haunting questions all too well.<br/><br/>I think though sometimes it's not you. It's not that you've broken too many mirrors or accidentally walked under a few hundred ladders. I think it really is about time, and fate and all that stuff. And sometimes, it's when you don't even want ti. When you've sworn off it for life. Then it just hits you between the eyes.<br/><br/>Oh, and can you please delete that comment above already, no need for that crap...<br/><br/>Enjoy your wine and your weekend. I (while not single now) have also ridden that train and I know those haunting questions all too well.

I think though sometimes it’s not you. It’s not that you’ve broken too many mirrors or accidentally walked under a few hundred ladders. I think it really is about time, and fate and all that stuff. And sometimes, it’s when you don’t even want ti. When you’ve sworn off it for life. Then it just hits you between the eyes.

Oh, and can you please delete that comment above already, no need for that crap…

Enjoy your wine and your weekend.

]]> By: Joy @ Big Time Fancy http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-457 Joy @ Big Time Fancy Thu, 13 Nov 2008 22:00:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-457 Mmmmm waffles & wine.<br/>You should come with when me and Jess & Angie go man-hunting. :) Mmmmm waffles & wine.
You should come with when me and Jess & Angie go man-hunting. :)

]]> By: miss gruntled http://www.nicnarrates.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/comment-page-1/#comment-456 miss gruntled Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:09:00 +0000 http://nicnarrates.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/waffles-and-whine/#comment-456 I happen to know that you have spomeone who loves you out there in the world and he desperately wants you back. So much so that he won't see what's in front of him and keeps focusing on you.<br/><br/>At least call the guy. He's been waiting for two months and all you can do is "whine" that your lonely and want a relationship.<br/><br/>If you don't want him, cut him loose, so the rest of us can have a shot.<br/><br/>Head of hair, single, ready to commit and a great kid comes with the package. Not bad.<br/><br/>Take him back or get out of the way. There's a lot of us out here and you're hogging a good one without even doing anything about it! I happen to know that you have spomeone who loves you out there in the world and he desperately wants you back. So much so that he won’t see what’s in front of him and keeps focusing on you.

At least call the guy. He’s been waiting for two months and all you can do is “whine” that your lonely and want a relationship.

If you don’t want him, cut him loose, so the rest of us can have a shot.

Head of hair, single, ready to commit and a great kid comes with the package. Not bad.

Take him back or get out of the way. There’s a lot of us out here and you’re hogging a good one without even doing anything about it!

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